Most of us were told by our society that we should loves others, we should be nice to others, we should forgive others, etc.,

I am not denying the above, but all that are possible only when you love yourself first.

Unfortunately, I don’t find that as a case. Most of us are not having very high opinion about ourselves.

We often think

(a) We are burden to the people we love
(b) We are burden to this world
(c) We are losers
(d) We are worthless
(e) We are not lucky to enjoy all the good things in life
(f) No one cares about us
(g) No one loves us
(h) We are living for our children only
(i) We are living for our parents only
(j) We are not having perfect physic (some would feel they are obese / some would feel they are lean and develop inferior complex)

Actually the above list is endless.

By thinking that above, we are not doing good to us.

No one can love others when they don’t love themselves first.

No one can think positively when they don’t think positive about them first.

My new age thought is

(a) Think you are the best creature in this world
(b) Feel good about you
(c) Feel that you are close to god
(d) Think that you deserve the best in this world.
(e) Think that you always get the best in this world.
(f) Feel you are blessed

Automatically you would have higher thoughts about you, and you feel happy. And no happy person would do harm to others, and it would make others love you automatically.

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