Hello there, sorry for not writing for a long time. Now I’m back.

I was just asking my 3.5 yr old son….”Dear, are you happy?”… He said “Yes”… the response was instant…. I was just noticing him… He is happy to go to school…. play with his mates…. play with his toys at home…. sing nursery rhymes…. seeing mickey mouse…. just one after another activity…. I find him happy……

Its just the nature of his child’s mind to be happy…. There is no pre-condition for him to be happy… Its his mind’s nature…. I think thats the case of almost all kids…..

As we grow, we gain strength in physic, we gain more knowledge, we become more intelligent, we gain more skills, we learn to speak multiple languages… but somehow down the line, we miss the nature of being happy… We add more and more precondition for our happines….

If I get the admission in this college, i would be happy. If i get this job, If I get this salary, If I get this life as my girlfriend, If I get this girl as my wife, If I get bigger house, If I get big car, If I travel aboard for pleasure trip, If I earn money, etc., etc., etc.,

All I saying is expectation is not bad…. All I am saying is desire is good…. also I am saying that it is human;s nature is being happy…. and we can simply be happy, and you dont need anything else for that… You just decide and be happy….

When I wake up in the morning… I have 2 choices… either be happy for the whole day or be unhappy for the day….. its my decision….. I decide to be happy…. Its just as easy as that….. Hope you do that and be happy too.