I heard from Amma Bhagavan (www.onenessuniversity.org) that brain as a organism work better when you feel gratitude.

I thought of putting that in practice. Everyday I wake up or pray to the god, I feel grateful to god for all the things happened in my life. I make sure that I dont fume in my prayers nor when I talk with people. I as a person have become much more happy, clearer in vision and leading a healthy life.

In addition to this there are many other things which I have put together and sharing with people in my website www.vedicsecret.com

I wish that people learn those and be happy.

Please try to read below

“I wuold liek to tell yuo taht oru mind raed tihs lnie wiht otu ayn probelm becaues ew alreday maed up our mnid”

If you have no difficulty in reading the above line, then you are common and it is very natural for us to read this as our mind is capable of linking it with the pattern we already know.

If you have difficulty in reading the above line, then you are very good – either your mind is fresh or you deny accepting the pattern we already know, and we claim the line as non-readable or with typo errors

The point I would like share with you is all of us, have some judgements about the other person based on our previous experiences. If the previous experiences are good, then we mark the other person as good person, if the previous experiences are bad, then we mark the other person as bad person.

Next time, when we meet that person or when we happen to discuss about that person, our judgement about that person comes to our conscious mind, and accordingly we react.

This is the nature of our mind. There is nothing wrong with that, and you might be absolutely correct with your judgement.

But, sometimes or many times we end up taking a wrong judgement call, and we might not try to understand that person or we might not ready for a new experience from that person.

Interestingly a study shows, that many times we take some other person’s judgement as our judgement when we encounter new people. Our mind can be easily manipulated by other people’s input.

My new age thought would be

(a) Always know that there is a possibility that what we already know as right could end up as wrong, and open your heart and accept people as they are. This would end the conflict within families/society/ this universe.

As always, your comments are welcome.

We usually get into relationships because we need someone to give us company, we need someone to give us love we need, we need someone to gift us, we need someone who should listen to us, we need someone who should take care of us till we die.

Larger portion of the people don’t enjoy their relationship but stick to them due to other reasons like children, society. A study shows main reason for relationship failure as follows.
a) The partner do not listen to them
b) The partner do not do what they say
c) The partner do not talk what they want to listen
d) The partner do not change as they want.
e) The partner have conflicting interest than them

How many of you have visited your friends regularly as you were doing before marriage?
How many of you have continued your hobby after your marriage?
How many of you have done something you as an individual enjoyed doing it?
As an individual, they don’t find time for themselves to focus on their development.

My new age thought is to be very successful in relationships (be it with spouse / parents / in-laws / children) – you need to be self-centred.
If you start concentrating on your life, your actions, your words, your desire then you would not have any issues with Relationships.

Don’t focus on what your partner doing, going, talking – but focus on your actions, your improvement.
If you see very successful and happier couple, they have they own space. They do not try to change their partner. They do not try to control the other person.

Think about it, and talk to your spouse / parents / children (or whomever you see problems with relationships) and create your own space and be self-centred.

And to be much more successful in relationship, you support your partner to achieve in their life, help them setting goals in their life, help them to find new hobbies, help them to set new visions. Support them and not Control them.

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