Conversation With Prem

Labour of Love - a new term to secret of success. It means that if you love wholeheartedly what you do then you excel in what you in your field and get success. There are many examples of great personalities who do what they love most and get success.

One such example is Hollywood movie director Steven Spielberg who started making movies from the age of 16. He once said in an interview that since every young age he dreamt of him as a story teller and he chosen his medium as films. He said that he loves doing that and hence he can get success in his field.

If you dont love what are you doing, then no matter what, you cannot go beyond a certain limit in success. If you do what you love most and do that in little different way, then success would be in your door step.

Thank you.

I read a quote which I really liked and would like to share with you. “If you always do same things you always get what you always got”.

We can apply this thought in any area of our life i.e., in our career, in our personal life. Let me give you an example, in your job if you do the routine work every day, you always get the result as you got previously. Your management will consider you as a sincere worker, thats it - nothing else. In case of considering the promotion and other benefits, it is very unlikely your name come into your management’s mind.

The same situation if you show some efficiency - new ways to improvement, then first of all, you yourself will enjoy your work, next senior management would love you. All benefits would come to you and you dont have to go behind it.

Worries…. is one of the basic feeling of humans. Everybody worries about something or other. It would be a lie if I say I dont worry at all. In this discussion I focus on our day to day worries. For e.g., some stress at home, missing bus and arriving late to office, vehicle repair and unneccessary expenses, credit crunch, lesser marks in exams, etc., These are basic worries which we encounter everyday at life.

All such worries creates bigger impact in our life like it creates lot of stress and make us sick. Creates tension and strain our relationship with others as we sometimes lose our control over our words and much much more.

All I say is there is nothing wrong in getting worries, there is nothing wrong in feeling bad.

At the same time, accept that you are feeling bad and drain your worries.

For e.g., if you are feeling bad about something, once you are aware about that fact, you start imagine that your worry is draining away from brain or fly away from your brain. Animate it and be creative and make the process more interesting. you can also think that a soldier is killing your worry. You also think that you are erasing your worry written in your mind. whichever way you are comfortable with.

After that process, believe it that the worry has vanished from your mind doesnt exist anymore.

At the same time, within few minutes your subconscious mind will pop up with the same worry again, animate it again. It is purely within your mind. As you continuously do that your mind calms down and you would feel better, and more importantly that worry would not stored into subconscious mind and as a result would not have any negative impact in future.

More about this you can learn in vedic secret, go ahead - learn it and get benefited

I just gave the heading of this article as “Art of sitting idle” just to dramatize and attract you to the article, but I am sure you will enjoy this as other blog posts.

Actually, I am going to discuss about “Art of sitting idle and relax”.

As we all might realize that the world around us is moving at very high speed. Late hours at work have become routine and we don’t feel guilt about it. There are numerous tasks ahead of us and we are running hard to catch up. Mobile phones and Blackberry have become more common and we are expected to be connected to the network 24 x 7 x 365.

In that process, we are missing a lot in our very short life. We are paying very high price. We are ignoring our body, mind and soul. I would say that many of us are atleast aware of taking care of body (by doing regular or at least irregular exercises, at least one time healthy food). But we are absolutely ignoring very important factor i.e., mind.

We don’t care/aware about the existence of mind and our need to take care of that. Since we are not doing, all sorts of unhealthy thinking getting into your sub-conscious mind and in turn it makes our life sick.

One of the medical journal estimates that every 2 out of 5 American requires a sleeping pill to sleep. Isn’t sleep should be natural? Because of our ignorance of mind, all these problems exist.

I am going to recommend to you “Art of sitting idle” to you.

Every day consciously spend time with Nature. At least 5 or 10 minutes to start with. It could be sitting in morning sun. It could be watching a bird. It could be watching a child sleep. It could be morning mist. It could be watching plants/flowers. It could be watching a sea/rain/river. It could be a bird’s feather flying in wind. Anything associated with nature.

I am not talking about morning activity like gardening, jogging, brisk walking – all that is really appreciated and it is focused to body. But all I am concerned about is our minds.

During this time with Nature, let sit and notice the beauty of this world. Embrace it in your mind. Talk to it. Appreciate it – All slowly and steadily.

The outcome would be multi fold. Over the time you would appreciate the fact that how much beautiful the nature is. It would relax your nerves and calms you down. It paints a nice picture in your mind and it is ready for that day’s work load. And when you are tense, your subconscious mind automatically brings in that picture in front of you resulting in calm mind, and it means greater power. Because Calmer mind brings in greater power.

I heard from Amma Bhagavan (www.onenessuniversity.org) that brain as a organism work better when you feel gratitude.

I thought of putting that in practice. Everyday I wake up or pray to the god, I feel grateful to god for all the things happened in my life. I make sure that I dont fume in my prayers nor when I talk with people. I as a person have become much more happy, clearer in vision and leading a healthy life.

In addition to this there are many other things which I have put together and sharing with people in my website www.vedicsecret.com

I wish that people learn those and be happy.

Hello there, sorry for not writing for a long time. Now I’m back.

I was just asking my 3.5 yr old son….”Dear, are you happy?”… He said “Yes”… the response was instant…. I was just noticing him… He is happy to go to school…. play with his mates…. play with his toys at home…. sing nursery rhymes…. seeing mickey mouse…. just one after another activity…. I find him happy……

Its just the nature of his child’s mind to be happy…. There is no pre-condition for him to be happy… Its his mind’s nature…. I think thats the case of almost all kids…..

As we grow, we gain strength in physic, we gain more knowledge, we become more intelligent, we gain more skills, we learn to speak multiple languages… but somehow down the line, we miss the nature of being happy… We add more and more precondition for our happines….

If I get the admission in this college, i would be happy. If i get this job, If I get this salary, If I get this life as my girlfriend, If I get this girl as my wife, If I get bigger house, If I get big car, If I travel aboard for pleasure trip, If I earn money, etc., etc., etc.,

All I saying is expectation is not bad…. All I am saying is desire is good…. also I am saying that it is human;s nature is being happy…. and we can simply be happy, and you dont need anything else for that… You just decide and be happy….

When I wake up in the morning… I have 2 choices… either be happy for the whole day or be unhappy for the day….. its my decision….. I decide to be happy…. Its just as easy as that….. Hope you do that and be happy too.

In UK, one study revealed that one disease is going to be in No.1 spot and it would affects every 2 in 3 person in the world by one way or other.

Any guess on what it would be?

If you have guessed some Virus or HIV or cancer or something of that sort, then I am sorry you are not correct.

The correct answer is DEPRESSION

Google defines depression as “a mental state characterized by a pessimistic sense of inadequacy and a despondent lack of activity “

And if you are identified as affected by depression, don’t panic or don’t feel bad. It is very common. Each one of us are affected by some depression. If you get consulted with Physicrot then don’t feel bad, don’t feel end of world, don’t feel hurted but feel happy that you have got someone who listen to your inner feelings and make you in correct path.

Many people are not opening up thinking that the people around them would make fun of that or it would make them separated.

Depressions can happen even for very trivial things, people get depressed due to heavy work load, people get depressed if don’t find dresses of their size, people get depressed if they are fat. People get depressed if no one appreciate them

My new age thought is
Be cheerful and it would spread to your environment, and in turn make you cheerful. Basically, what you give is what you get. This cheerfulness would help you away from the depression of any sort, and facilitate you to lead a joyful life.

You can be cheerful by
(a) Doing what you love most – listening music, playing with kids, cracking jokes, talking with your loved ones, anything which distress you.

Be cheerful and live happy.

As usual your comments are welcome

I am not going to discuss about any cold/flu virus thru we catch cold or fever or any other diseases.

I am going to discuss the role your mind plays in becoming you sick.

Whatever it is, we decide upfront on our mind, i.e., we catch cold in our mind then we catch cold in our body.

People who are not in high spirits feel sick very often.

They catch cold, fever, body pain, tooth ache, get hurt, etc., very often.

Because of their not so good feelings.

It is very important for us to feel positive, feel good. Be it family, job – so that our mind and body would be healthy.

But the fact is our mind is more towards negativity, that’s how we have brought up. We always think what if we fail? And start planning for that. And we justify it by stating that we need to be prepared.

I agree to that, but why we need to start our whole thinking by a negative scenario.

Have highest opinion about you, think you are a winner, think you are blessed, then you would definitely improve our health.

Does fish strain to swim? No, it is its nature to swim in water with ease.
Does Sun strain to shine? No, it is its nature to shine with ease
Do we strain to breathe? No, it is our nature to breath in and out with ease. We don’t even notice that we are breathing.
Likewise, it is our nature to achieve our desires in life with ease.
Likewise, it is our nature to be happy in our life with ease.
Likewise, it is our nature to have an ageless body with ease.

All along this society have done mind manipulation with thoughts like
a. No pain No gain
b. We born out of sin
c. Rich become richer, poor becomes poorer
d. Money is evil
e. Too much of money is bad for you
Come out of this old age thoughts, and start believing that whatever your will might be, if you believe you can do, you would end up achieving it.

I will try my best

I have tried but I could not succeed

I try to study hard and get good marks

I tried to get this job – but could not get that

The list (not limited) is very common words we use every day.

I was just thinking what we mean by trying. What is the point we are conveying?

Assume this. There is a PEN in your desk, and if I tell you to try to take that PEN, can you do it?

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If you have picked up the PEN in your hand – I am not impressed, because I just wanted you to try and not pick the PEN.

If you are moving your hands very close to the PEN – I am not impressed though, because I just wanted you to try and not move your hands.

If you are sitting and watching the PEN – I am not impressed, because I just wanted you to try and not sit idle.

All I wish to convey, is there is nothing called TRYING – either you do it or you don’t. It is in your MIND.

If you say – I try to get the job, it is up to you to decide in your mind whether you get the job or you don’t get the job, there is no other option.

Having said that, why don’t we think positive about the outcome and tell -

I shall do it

I shall get the job

I shall earn money

Etc

And just achieve it (as simple as it. Isn’t it?)

Again your comments are welcome